Today I was confronted yet again with someone from the school of thought that being a Gorean lifestyler gave them the right to speak to a submissive woman that he hardly knows like she was a piece of trash just because he is a man.

I've never been a fan of the idea that dominant people can do whatever they wish whenever they wish to submissive people iRL where you can actually be hurt. There are too many people in this world that overestimate their ability, that are bullies mascarading as dominants or that just like to hurt people as much as they can whenever they get the chance for me to ever view this school of thought as anything short of irresponsbile behavior.

To be so kamikaze with something that you own should, in my opinion, disqualify you from ownership at the very least. We have to be realistic and remember that this isn't Gor, this is Earth where alot of bad and unexpected things can happen to those we care about if we are this careless. I just can not imagine going to a gathering and letting someone that I have never met scream at my submissive let along put their hands on her.